Are you fed up with patterns repeating in your relationships
(intimate, friends, family, work)?

Are you sick and tired of settling in relationships and wondering
"is this as good as it gets"?

If you are looking for an intimate relationship,
are you done with the "dating scene"?

Have you had it with putting yourself out there over and over and over
only to still be "looking" for The One?

Do you distract yourself so you don't have to spend time alone with you?

Are you ready to create the deeply loving relationships you desire?

If you answered YES to any of these questions -
no matter your relationship status -
keep reading!

You are the key to all of your relationships.

The One Experiment is an unforgettable and transformational journey where you discover you have been holding the keys to all of your relationship success.

This journey reveals your unique keys to being The One in all of your relationships.

You are The One you have been waiting for.

You are 
The One ALL of your relationships have been waiting for.

You are 
The One that special someone is ready to welcome into their life.

All great relationships start here:
inside of you.

And I had to learn this for myself...allow me to take you on my journey...

I am deeply, profoundly, ineffably in love with my man and our relationship.

This relationship is BEYOND my dreams.  It is deeper and broader than anything I ever thought possible. 

Every day we choose each other, every day we co-create even more amazing, together.

We met November 2, 2018...

...Yet for the two and half years prior to us meeting, I had given up on relationships.


In March 2016, I drew a huge line in the sand.  I said, “I’m done!  If I can’t have the relationship of my dreams, the relationship I KNOW is possible, I’m never doing this again.”


It’s not that the relationships I’d had were “bad” - but they were definitely way less than I desired.


They were mediocre.  Monotonous.  Lacking in depth.  Lacking emotional intimacy.  Void of the true depth of connection I desired.


I was so fed up with having less than I desired in relationships, so I completely stopped.


And for the first time in my life, I whole-heartedly gave myself the attention I desired in relationship.


And that changed everything.



My History of Dating & Relationships

I’d never really dated much.  I was the type that went all in on a relationship and since age 19, I’d had several committed relationships (3 years, 3 years, 8 years).


The 8 year relationship ended in 2012.  I was 33 and for the first time in my life, I started doing the dating thing.


It was weird.  Uncomfortable.  Foreign.  Awkward.


I had no idea what I was doing.  Online dating was a lot of judging books by their covers.


Sometime in 2013, I started evolving an idea about dating differently.


About dating FOR ME.  Versus dating to “find someone.”


This idea was revolutionary for me.


It was all about going on dates with the intention of discovering more about me and what I actually wanted in a relationship.


I called it The Single Experiment: Dating for Self-Discovery.


And it was a JOURNEY, for sure!


I dabbled in my personal single experiment and in May of 2014, I found myself getting involved in another relationship.


We became “exclusive” in July.  We broke up in February.


Five months went by with no contact.  Then we started spending time together again.


By November 2015 we were pretty involved again, but there was a lot that wasn’t being spoken, talked about, shared, or agreed to.


It felt super sticky.  YUCKY.  Challenging.


I’d never experienced anything like this and it was a huge opportunity for learning…and learn I did.


The entire experience in that relationship really f*cked with me.  And caused me to grow immensely.  It was a trigger for massive transformation and THE trigger for the line I drew in the sand 


When I really woke up to what I was allowing in that relationship, I was DONE.  


It was March 23, 2016.  It was one of the most pivotal days of my life. 


Because for the first time, I CHOSE ME FOR ME.


I chose me over a man (or anyone else!).


And that has made all the difference.


In choosing me, I actually chose the love I desired and deserved.


With choosing me, I recommitted even more deeply to my single experiment and massive changes occurred in my life - all for the better.


I learned so much along the way: about me, about other people, about my patterns in relationships, and about what actually mattered to me at the core of all relationships.


I was blown away and massively transformed in the process.


The growth I experienced over the next 9 months launched me into creating and living even more of the life of my dreams.


And I knew if my own personal experiment with being single and dating for self-discovery could create this kind of change and positive results in my own life, it could do the same for others.


So I did something inspired and from my heart: I created my first group coaching program.


Inviting Others to Their Own Single Experiment

The beginning of February 2017, with a circle of beautiful humans in my living room, I presented the Introduction to The Single Experiment and I invited people to come on the journey of their own single experiments.


People literally THREW their money at me.  Hundred dollar bills and credit cards poured into my lap.  


I laughed out loud as I gathered up and received the money.


It was happening!  The Single Experiment was officially launched and the program had its first handful of eager and excited participants.


For the next 6 weeks, those participants received the best of what I’d learned and discovered for myself during the previous five years.


They loved every minute of it, every exercise, every challenge, every group session, all the coaching, and the new experiences they were creating in dating and their other relationships.

Each of them loved the new relationship that was being created inside of them with their self!


The first round of The Single Experiment was a heart-opening success and I offered it again!


Over the years, I made revisions and upgrades, streamlining the content each time I facilitated it.  


All of the participants have loved it.  Everyone experienced wonderful results inside of themselves and their relationships.


And for me, my own personal single experiment was the key that led me to the love of my life.


I literally was delivered to his front door on November 2, 2018. [That’s a story for another time…]


Life has never been the same - nor my experience of relationship.


We have continued to use the foundational principles of The Single Experiment (now called The One Experiment) to co-create an epic and amazing relationship we are both delighted to be in.


Every day is filled with joy, deep connection, fulfilling sensuality, growth, ease, contentment and the sweetest most amazing love.


Both of us knew this kind of relationship was possible, but we’d never seen it done, never witnessed others co-creating deep connected love.


We had to figure it out for ourselves, slowly.  And each of us is the key to our relationship success.



We know it is possible for you, too.


And it all starts here.  Well, actually, it all starts inside of you, with your own experiment to be The One.

All of your relationships are built on the same foundation: YOU. 



You are The One you have been waiting for.

You are 
The One ALL of your relationships have been waiting for.

You are 
The One that special someone is ready to welcome into their life.


⭐️ Are you ready to take the journey and BE The One? ⭐️

In this 6-week journey, you will:
  • Learn the keys to transform ALL of your relationships.
  • Unlock your power in relationships.
  • Discover what you truly want in relationships.
  • Create a vision - and a plan - for your ideal relationships.
  • Receive help getting out of your own way of even more love!
  • Become The One.


The journey includes:
  • 6 module course
  • BONUS: 6 live 90-minute group sessions:
    • On Zoom @ 12:30pm PT beginning Wednesday, November 8
    • In-person in Marin County, CA @ 6:30pm PT beginning December
    • If the upcoming dates don't work for you, that's okay!  Enroll now and enjoy the 6 module course + Experiments PLUS join us for a future LIVE session.

  • 2017 pricing!
  • Invitations to other Rising With Love events
Enroll Now!


Whatever your intimate relationship status, this journey is for you!

I've taken the same foundational principles of my single experiment and applied them to my other relationships with remarkable results.  The humans in my life now and the relationships we co-create are safe, nourishing, fulfilling, co-created, fun, playful, and they keep getting even better.

You want that too!  So, this journey is also for you if you are a friend, sibling, parent, colleague, etc.

Are you a human interacting with other humans everyday?  GREAT!  This is for you!

Life is ALL about relating and the more powerful the foundation of our relationships is (US!), the better and even more powerful our relationships get to be!

Everyone is invited to The One Experiment because YOU are The One for all of your relationships!


This journey is for you if you are:
  • Fed up with repeating negative/sabotaging patterns in relationships.
  • Sick and tired of settling for less than you desire in relationships.
  • Done with the "dating scene."
  • "Bored" in any of your relationships.
This journey is also for you if you are READY to:
  • Up-level all of your relationships.
  • Create deeply loving, safe, and secure relationships.
  • Stand up for what you want and deserve in all your relationships.
  • Show up for yourself powerfully in relationships.
  • Invite others into even more powerful relationship.
  • Have successful - and fun - "dating" experiences (relationship "status" not required!).
  • Truly open to creating and experiencing even more love and connection!
  • End relationship struggles.
  • Own your personal responsibility in growing your relationships.
  • Do the inner work.
  • Be The Key and The One for all of your relationships.



“I couldn't imagine paying for the course in the beginning. Yet, somehow I did. The growth and change I experienced from The One Experiment was worth it, transforming my life in ways I didn't know it could be transformed. The a-ha moments and healing that took place were monumental. That in and of itself is priceless and you cannot put a price tag on this type of growth. Thank you so much, Dena, for gifting us with your expertise.”



“I've participated in a lot of courses and workshops, investing thousands of dollars.  None of those investments gave me the foundational element of me being The One.  The value of what I received from this program is priceless.”



“I discovered I have a right to ask for and receive the things I want and need.  I also discovered I have a right to filter people.  These two takeaways allowed me to shift from settling for what I can get to going for what I want - and getting it!"



“I'm in my sixties and only now learning how to choose myself!  How different my life and marriage could have been.  Now I am creating the relationship I've always dreamed of and feel like I have an entire new life to live and future to create.  The One Experiment changed my life, my relationships with my children, and my entire future.  Thank you, Dena!"


“Participating in The One Experiment was one of the most joyful and profound experiences of my life.  Dena's facilitation and experience has contributed to me valuing myself even more and the impact in my life and relationships is everywhere!”

Enroll Now!

6 Module Course 

Videos & Exercises
24/7 Lifetime Access
All Future Updates!

6 Live Group Sessions 

Choose Online or In-Person!
Q & A
Hot LoveSeat Coaching

Rising With Love Events

Special invitations to:
live workshops,
in-person events
& retreats.

2017 Pricing!

This work has changed so many lives and now it is time for it to spread [love] like a wildfire and benefit even more people!

The One Experiment
has been the key that changed
so many lives, it can change yours...

Take a moment and notice how you feel right now.

~ If you feel called to this, if you feel something inside of you leaning into this, desiring this, lighting up from this…then know you get to choose what is right for you.

~ You get to be supported in your relationships and the magic of who you are to create those relationships.  You get to create the relationships and life you desire.  You get to breathe easier and feel more expansion in your life.

~ You get TO!  Now, are you ready to?


Great!  Let’s do the details.

  • When you enroll, you will be prompted to set up a username and password (or login if you already have Ecstatic Collective courses).

  • Your login details will also be emailed to you.

  • Login to the course portal at:

  • You get to stay engaged - in our online community plus connect with us on Social Media.  All those links are available to you in the online course portal.

What is the value of YOU being The One for YOU?

What does being The One for all of your relationships do for your relationships?

For your life?

Your goals?

Your dreams?

What is the value of upleveling YOU for your life?

The value of the content of The One Experiment is priceless.

My life is an expression of learning to be The One - that is priceless!

I believe in and know the power of this work.  And I am taking divinely guided action to do somethings I've never done before in business:

1. You get lifetime access WITH all future updates (at no additional cost) AND...

2. When Rising With Love: Oneness opens for enrollment, you receive a credit for The Single Experiment towards Rising With Love: Oneness (in the form of a discount code emailed to you). 

It is a win-win-win.

Your current self wins, your future self wins, the people around you win, all of your relationships win, the world wins.

We need even more powerful individuals and relationships to show the world what is possible when we are The One.

 Allow your Inner Voice or your body to be your guide as you decide this is right for you.

Leaning in!

You are invited to click on the "enroll now" button [in white, below] to enroll.

Then you will be prompted to create your username and password (or login if you already have one).

Check your inbox upon enrollment!


I’m so excited for you to choose you & the infinite positive impact this decision has on your life, relationships, and the world!


[Click on the white ENROLL NOW on the image above!]

Jessie Sarah

"How many coaches I had to go through - you can put them all together and they still don’t equal Dalai Grace!"

Hi beautiful human!  I’m Dalai Grace (aka Dena) and I love to help people.  I love to help people choose themselves so they can get out of their own way.  I love to help people figure out what they want in life and go get it.  I love to help people clean up their past so they can have the life they’ve always desired.  I love to help people level up inside and out!

My love of helping people and working with people started early.  I took my first social-emotional training at age 7.  That started years of training in conflict management and mediation, leadership, communication, facilitation, and more – all before graduating high school.

By 15, I was already teaching personal development courses and planning events and experiences.  My trajectory and training continued throughout my education (including 2 masters degrees) and a 17-year career (that I loved).

People love me.  I’ve been a leader, facilitator, teacher, mentor, and coach my entire life.  I make things easy to learn and digest.  I bring play and fun to the table.  I’m a great speaker - I’m fun to listen to AND I’m engaging.  I’m vulnerable and authentic.  I give people their power back.  Yes, I’m tooting my horn here because I know what I have to offer and it is all damn good.  This is me choosing to shine the light I am!

That’s why I am here.  One of my mentors recognized the magic I have working with all types and styles of people.  She saw how I led and mentored 85 staff and she experienced my coaching firsthand.  And she gave me the nudge to go out on my own - to leave my 17-year career - for something even better.  She saw the light in me and said the world needs me to share my true gifts.

So in 2016, I did it - I chose me and my gifts.

Here I am - sharing my gifts with people like you and helping people transform their lives and consciousness (are you one of them?).  And I love every minute of it!  I love mentoring and coaching my clients.  I love training and certifying other incredible coaches.  I love sharing spiritual teachings.  I love contributing to YOU choosing you and your expansion!


I love my work and I love my beautiful life.

My life wasn’t always as magnificent as it is now.  I came from a lower middle class family and was left to fend for myself from an early age.  I’ve been financially responsible since age 15.  Nothing was handed to me, but I was determined and I worked my a$$ off to create the life I always dreamed of - and that dream is now my beautiful reality. 

I dug deep and did my inner work (and I still do it in incredibly intentional ways and with lots of altered states of consciousness). 

My beautiful reality is the outer expression of my inner self and it all started with choosing me and my single experiment to be The One.

And this is what I love to help others do…to align the inner and the outer.  To help people create congruency.  I work magic WITH you.


Now, my lifetime of training and experience allows me to help you choose you so you can design, create, and live YOUR ecstatic life.

Welcome to me.  Dena / Dalai Grace, Minister of Magic, at your service.

[Click on the white ENROLL NOW in the image above!]